Understanding man and dating
then these next few steps of awareness are likely going to change how you think about yourself… When we are absorbed in a task, we are like a freight train that has built up momentum. If someone tries to distract us from our single task or line of thought, it often takes some energy for them to break our focus.
I’ll be writing an entire post on that subject soon. The front line of our mental army is always on the look out for potential threats or challenges.Sexual attraction can only occur in the space between two people, and that space had narrowed significantly.Am I now going to suggest that the pendulum needs to swing back in the other direction back to a pre-1970′s polarization? As I mentioned earlier, every being has a masculine and feminine energy.The singular focus on the one element made the other pieces fall away from your focus and so they suffered.Ironically, often the one element that you are focusing on also suffers.Jonathon Aslay has done the women of the world a great service…has cracked the code to “understanding men.” If you’re ready to have a relationship that really works, dive into his vast wealth of wisdom on men, women and relationships.
One simple thing that you can do to today to have less stress in your life (and maintain healthier relationships with women) is understand how your brain works.
Just like a yin and yang, it is best when one partner is 90% masculine and 10% feminine, and the other partner is the opposite.
If you are one of the many men who feel like you sometimes have difficulty aligning yourself with your goals, your passion or purpose in life, or feeling ‘like a man’… The way that the male brain works we do much better focusing on one specific task than bouncing around between ideas.
Imagine that you were the sun, and instead of trying to grow an entire forest with your light, you focused all of your energy on one plant.
The neglect of the forest would make for chaos, and the intensity of the focus would make the plant burst into flames. Have you ever focused so much energy on getting a phone number or a new girlfriend, that it ended up scaring the woman away?
The majority of energy used to get a freight train moving in one direction is used up in the initial process of getting the train up to speed.