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Muslim women and dating

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That makes them a difficult, but not impossible challenge for an outsider.

Answer: "Dating" as it is currently practiced in much of the world does not exist among Muslims.Muslim girls will feel shame at the thought of others knowing about her forbidden love, but not personal guilt.Consequently her focus will not be on reluctance to do but on reluctance to be seen to do.If a girl with a headscarf shows the slightest sign of interest then she is very interested.If she allows herself to be isolated or consents to any kind of public display then sex is a virtual certainty.On the other hand, everyone has heard about situations where they turned out to be all too serious.

Threats by themselves do not indicate any personal ill will. As with all threats it is critical to maintain a steady, untroubled manner.

As with any other religious group there is a high level of variation between individuals within that group.

These points should only be seen as tendencies to look out for and warnings of what to be prepared for, not as certainties.

Choose as safe a medium and environment for such conversations as possible.

Acknowledging understanding and requesting time to think, decide or learn can be a useful tactic for escaping a situation that seems imminently dicey.

Remember that to her what others see and think is everything so privacy, secrecy and subtlety are gold.