Man friendships dating
Some men may desire a long-term relationship with a hook-up buddy.
Keeping that point in mind leads to the solution...For example, both sexes enjoyed opposite-sex friends for dinner companions, conversation partners, self-esteem boosts, information about the opposite sex, social status, respect, and sharing resources.Both sexes also noted some similar costs of opposite-sex friendship, such as jealousy, confusion over the status of the relationship, love not being reciprocated, cruel or mean behaviors, and being less attractive to other potential daters because of the friendship.Each looks at the responsibilities in friendship and love a bit differently.As a result, they tend to co-create this friend zone confusion. So, I took a look in the research literature on men and women being friends. Apparently this "just friends" question was pondered by others beginning about a decade ago.As a result, men were also more likely than women to say that they had sex with an opposite sex friend (22% vs. Men were also more likely to report friendship costs of lowered self-worth and giving time to help the friend, while women found their own inability to reciprocate the male's attraction as costly.
Therefore, when friendships did not turn sexual or romantic, men were often left feeling rejected and used (i.e.
"friend zoned"), while women felt uncomfortable with the unequal attraction.
In contrast, when friendships did turn romantic/sexual, some of these men continued to label the women as "just friends" - at about double the rate of women.
Men, in contrast, find the time and money demands costly and frustrating, particularly when their romantic desires are not reciprocated.
So, due to the mismatched desires, we have the makings of friendship difficulties. As I have said before, the friend zone is essentially an unequal relationship, where the desires of both friends are not equally met.
Generally, that debate centered on whether men and women, particularly, can be "just friends".